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Gift Ideas for Some of your Favs

Here is your shopping weekend update:  you have only 5 weekends to shop for Christmas and  3 weekends until Hanukkah!  If you are anything like me, some of the most important people in your life are your friends, your besties, your posse.    If you have read any of my previous posts and know me at all, you know I love shopping.  I love gift giving!  I love thinking about the person and choosing the perfect gift for them regardless of the holiday or reason.  I would love to spend tons of money on all the people that mean so much to me but alas, reality sets in.   I have put together a short list of some of my favorite things to give.  The ideas can be seen as more of an "idea" or "theme" starter if you just need some inspiration.  Otherwise I also have the specific shopping information if you choose.  I am a fan of shopping local so for some of these ideas if you aren't in West Michigan you would need to source locally (*think macarons).  Let me also say, if you are a "crafty" person and make beautiful hand-made items - go for it - I think that always means so much to the receiver.  However, for me ....not an area I am even remotely talented in.  

Here we go:

1)  Give your besties jewelry.  But not just jewelry.  Add the personal touch to it.  A couple of my favs would be the engraveable collection from Stella & Dot and the whole buildable idea from Origami Owl.  First the Stella & Dot - you can spend a lot or a little - choose a chain and build it up with charms or go simple which affords you the opportunity to add to it in the future.  You can engrave special dates, ideas, words, etc on the pieces.  If there is a circle of girlfriends you are close to you could actually choose the same theme and gift to all.  I love the versatility in the pieces and the selection is amazing.  As a side note...the service and the packaging from Stella & Dot is amazing.  Along the same line is Origami Owl.  You choose lockets and add charms to the lockets.  Again, the colors, charms, overall selection is vast as is the styling.  There are more "edgy" choices in black metals or lighter silver styles.  The idea here is again personal and buildable for future gifts.  Again, packaging is adorable.  

2)  Do you have girlfriend that's a planner?  Loves to write personal notes?  Super organized...um or perhaps needs help getting organized?  Maybe she doesn't enjoy trying to do the calendar-on-the-phone thing (that's me).  I love the gift of a more personal and creative planner.  The Erin Condren Life Planner is A-mazing.  You can make it more personalized by adding a cover with her name on it - even her company name if you choose.  The planner craze is out there.  She can buy stickers galore from Etsy shops and truly plan like crazy.  I love it because it's got some fashion sense :)  *Tip - Order NOW - these take a bit to get to you. You can also order the planner now and order additional covers in the future.  Along with the planner idea/theme is personalized stationery.  I love to give a gift that the person would not normally buy for themselves but I know they would truly enjoy.  

3)  Every girl needs some pampering time.  I love the idea of bath products but what I love even more is the "out of the box" gift...again something she might not normally buy for herself.  We all visit our favorite bath and body store or department from time to time, come on ...I know you do.  But I think the products from Lush are a step beyond.  The packaging alone is beyond.  

4)  Who doesn't love tasty treats?  I love love love macarons.  I love Champagne.  I love the idea of combining the two.  The beautiful box of macarons from Le Bon Macaron  (www.lebonmacaron.com) here in Grand Rapids almost makes me giddy.  I think the idea of a "gift basket" of sorts with macarons, some champagne, and even some pretty glasses would be amazing and truly special.  Not a fan of the champagne idea?  Think latte or teas and pretty cups.  This is one of those unexpected gifts but so thoughtful.  Another of those treats she probably wouldn't put together for herself but would love to receive.

5)  The gift of beauty ...but what to give?  NOT a gift card...no not ever.  The idea of a short beauty subscription is awesome.  Birchbox subscriptions start at 3 months.  So for 3 months in a row your bestie will receive a box full of fun treasures (usually not full size I must tell you) from the beauty world to try for herself.  Again, love the packaging and the fact she will receive treats for 3 months - what a fun reminder of your friendship.

6)  It's not possible to have too many bags and too many choices of sizes in bags.  Handbags, totebags, coin purses, etc.  Love the idea of these little bags/pouches for your bestie.  I love the idea that you could choose the same style for each bestie in your circle and even from some merchants have the pouches monogrammed.  I think this another example of the unexpected and I love it for that reason.

Shop now so you are sure to not only get the best selection but just as important is getting the gift in time without any panic or stress.  You never know, something might end up in your "cart" that you can't live without either :)  

It Starts Underneath

Sometimes I think the most important part of your wardrobe can get neglected.  Your style really begins underneath...your outfit.  Your style starts at your undergarments.  Proper fitting undergarments can make or break your outfit and therefore, Your Style  

Recently, I had the opportunity to host a great event at our local Soma store.  The event was called a "Get Gorgeous Party".  Soma stores across the country offer this event to anyone who is interested in hosting.  You choose a day and time, invite some friends, and shop for great foundation pieces.  As long as 4 or more people purchase everyone who attends and purchases anything at the event will receive 15% off everything they purchase.  I invited some friends and clients, brought some sparkling water for refreshments and we had a blast!

Whenever I work with a client on any project I always take the opportunity to talk about foundation garments and how important they are.  I believe if you have the right fit, wear the bra best for you (as well as proper panties/bottoms) you not only feel pretty to start, but you look better on the outside of your clothes as well.  Getting a proper fit on a bra is more important than the fit of the garment on top...I'm not even kidding.  Along with the fit is the idea of pretty.  Let's face it, if you are wearing pretty undergarments you feel pretty...come on you know I am right.  I think you have to spend some money on your undergarments.  You wear them everyday and they "set up" how your wardrobe will look on your body.  You've all seen the woman in the great form fitting dress but then you see either "her cups runneth over" or you can see the band of her bra in the back, or some other sad story.  I think having the proper fitting (and subsequently the proper size bra) not only eliminates a sad fashion story but just really makes the dress fit that much better.  The same is true for the panty/underwear/bottom (whatever words you like saying).  Not long ago I had the unfortunate viewing of what was otherwise an adorable outfit on an adorable woman...only problem was the skirt was sheer and I all I could see was her thong....argh.  Proper undergarments with sheer garments people!!  

I think you have to find the store, company you are most comfortable with and then get a good fitting.  Even if you have been fitted before, if it's been more than a year I would say do it again.  I am not a paid spokesperson for Soma, but I have to say they are one of my faves and here's why:

1)  great customer service and all the associates I have come in contact with know how to fit any size woman correctly

2)  selection - the stores carry a great selection of styles, fits, patterns/colors.  Better still - their size selection is vast both in store and online.

3)  Pricing and quality - for the price the quality is outstanding - the pieces wear well and when washed properly, last a long time.

4)  Made for the modern woman- this is not your mom's old bra.  This is also not the teenager's bra store.  The styles are sophisticated and all grown up.  

5)  They also carry great sleepwear, loungewear, other foundation pieces, and even some dresses all with the modern woman in mind.  This includes sleepwear with "cool" material, as in ease of heat :).

Regardless of where you go I have created a great list for you that I will post below.

  1. Bras- skintone and black
  2. Multi-wear bra (halter, strapless, etc.)
  3. Slip (1/2 and/or full)
  4. Panties (with invisible panty line)
  5. Sleepwear  

Before you spend a fortune on your wardrobe start underneath.  If you have pretty, great fitting undergarments you already feel pretty before you ever step in to your closet to get dressed, and really that's what it's all about...the pretty.  If you feel pretty you will Own your style.